Pamela C. Aitchison of Gainesville, VA, formerly of North Haven, CT passed away peacefully at home with her family by her side on August 15th, 2022. She was born in Syracuse, New York on March 5, 1945 to her parents Joseph and Genevieve Crosby. She is predeceased by her daughter Kristin A. Wilczynski of North Haven, CT and her brother Brian Crosby of East Longmeadow, MA.\n\nShe leaves behind her sister Maureen Stefanski of Castle Rock, CO. , her daughter Heather A. Estrada and husband Roberto of Gainesville, VA along with her 6 beloved grandchildren and her 2 nephews and their families.\n\nPamela spent many years living and working in Connecticut. She enjoyed gardening, the outdoors especially being by the shore, knitting and reading. She was a dedicated and loving mother, sister, aunt and especially loved being Mima to her grandchildren.\n\nThere will be no formal service at the request of Pamela. At a future date to be determined, a Celebration of Life will be held in Connecticut for her loved ones.